As you mentioned, this was already a topic of much discussion, elsewhere; for that reason, I'm going to explain a few of the concepts/philosophies that pertain to this, and request that further discussion occur back on IRC, in the #mtgjudge channel (it's not really a question for #mtgrules, as there's no ‘O’fficial answer possible.)
Also, keep in mind that #mtgjudge gives you access to a number of L3+ judges, with a great wealth of accumulated wisdom and experience. When you have a situation like this - i.e., no ‘O’ - just trust the Judge Program's leaders.
Short version: you have to be there in order to determine what really happened.
NAP believes that they've passed priority and is unhappy because they can be fishing for a response
A very valid concern. if AP announces a spell, and pauses while looking towards the opponent, I'd likely support the NAP's concerns re: fishing, and rule accordingly.
contrary opinion is that the AP controls the pace of the turn
Absolutely correct, and a key concept. If AP announces a spell, and pauses while figuring out how to tap for it and the Dualcaster that is then announced, I'd likely support the AP's position that he or she wasn't fishing, just continuing to plan their actions. While it's obviously preferable for them to think it all the way through first, and
then act without pausing, that's probably not nearly as common as the “FOO, and … uhh … oh, BAR … yeah, like that”.
So, why do we have that shortcut? Because of that first variation, and because that's how players usually play - i.e., cast/activate, then implicitly passing - so a player can't sit on priority, fishing for a reaction, then claim “I never passed priority!” This shortcut also encourages progressing the game state smoothly, without the need for clunky “pass” –> “pass, resolves” exchanges.
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