As a good start for getting a sense of these things, you can check out the
Missed Trigger Guides on the Judge Wiki.
Note: there is a link at the bottom of the page that goes to older sets as well, though it still only goes back to M13 / Innistrad Block.
Although the distinction is fuzzy in general, there are a few that are easy to classify:
- ‘May’ triggers are always non-detrimental. The controller of the trigger could chose not to do the effect if it worked against them, so there is never a downside.
- Triggers your opponents make a choice about (e.g. Desecration Demon) are nearly always detrimental, for mirroring reasons.
I've found poking through
old forum posts about this is a good way of building up some intuition on this front. Many of these threads aren't so cut and dry with the answer, but the responses can be enlightening.
Edited Talia Parkinson (March 24, 2014 12:05:29 AM)